It’s a world of equality out there and that applies as much to dating as anything else. For any date to be successful and lead on to a meaningful relationship, women have to work as hard as men and take responsibility for doing and saying the right things; so here are a few basic dating tips for women – there’s a lot more to dating, but these should help you to get on the right path. Keep in mind that everyone has baggage from the past and allowing your past to affect how you behave on a date is a sure way to ruin the evening – forget the past, this is now.
Perhaps you do not let the past affect your mood but you do talk about your exes in disparaging terms – no man wants to her that men are rotten human beings and the one you are with may begin to wonder if he will be next on your list.
Keep your personal problems to yourself, at least in the beginning – men have a set concept of what is romantic and what is not and talking about your stomach problems or how you can’t use public restrooms will destroy any chance of his viewing you as the object of his affections.
You will get a lot of advice on the importance of honesty and openness and it’s all true – but the first few dates are not the time to tell him about what an irritating or high maintenance person you can be at times – save that for later when you know each other better.
Never get high on booze – slurring away and talking nonsense is not in the least romantic. And should you get drunk, you will be in no position to watch his behavior for things you like and also dislike; and even worse, if you can’t recall how you behaved, how will you know what you may have let yourself in for?
You don’t have to fill up every pause in the conversation with chatter – natural gaps in the conversation can be a time to observe body language and notice the small things you overlooked before and it can also be a time for a sexy meeting of the eyes.
While it is fine for a woman to make the first move towards setting up a date, do not let a man think you are chasing him – it frightens them as they feel they are not in control and also threatens their macho image of themselves.
Dating Tips For Men
